Esalen: Workshops and Other Programs

Workshops and Other Programs

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Weekend of August 6-8, 2010

Deciphering the Romantic Attraction Code: How We Choose the Loves We Choose

Ayala Pines

When we fall in love we are sure that our beloved is not only perfect, but perfect for us. In time, many of us realize that neither is true. Disappointed and disillusioned, we wonder, How is it that we choose whom to fall in love with? And why are we so often wrong?

In this workshop, participants will explore theories and research findings that apply to their own romantic choices, right or wrong. More importantly, the workshop will help to examine what to do about these choices, both to enhance current romantic relationships and to avoid making the same mistakes in the future. Through group discussions and experiential exercises, the workshop is designed to increase understanding of the causes, conscious and unconscious, of romantic choices. In addition, it will present tools to improve the quality of relationships.

This workshop is for anyone who seeks better understanding of his or her romantic choices, especially those who seem unable to make the "right choice," for couples committed to keeping the spark alive in their relationships, and for counselors who work with couples or individuals with a problem in romantic choices. Individuals may take this workshop more than once.

Recommended reading: Pines, Falling in Love: Why We Choose the Lovers We Choose and Romantic Jealousy.

CEUs available for psychologists.

CEUs available for MFTs and LCSWs.

Reservations Information (Accommodations & Pricing)

Recommended Reading

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Romantic Jealousy	Ayala Pines
Falling in Love	Ayala Pines

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